Vibing High and Loving Life

Lady Queens, let’s talk about your vibrational level, your vibe — the strength in your energy, knowing your edges and your true self. Your vibe is how you bring more of your own brand of delicious Queenliness into the world. But before you can share with others, it’s important to make sure you’re vibing high.

What does that mean ? Well, I’m so glad you asked.

Vibing high is about elevating your state of mind, heart and body. It’s about staying in pleasure, and shining your light. Living high-vibe allows you to fully inhabit your Queendom, with your crown sparkling on your gorgeous head for all to see.

Sounds fabulous, right? So, I’m sure you’re wondering how to rock this high vibe lifestyle.

Knowing how to raise your vibe will keep you sashaying down the path of your Queendom with a spring in your step and love in your heart. And the first place to look is in your own mind.

Your mind is in charge of the stories you tell yourself, which are vital to your state of vibe. So, vibing high starts with being kind to your mind. The key thing with this is to find your own natural equilibrium. Finding balance is about allowing yourself to be messy — in fact, ENCOURAGING yourself to explore and dig deep into the muck — and then finding your return to your center. Remember, Queens, ‘perfection’ is a myth. Striving for perfection will only knock your crown off your beautiful head. Live your authentic truth and share your juiciness in all its honest, occasionally messy glory with those around you. Allowing yourself the time and space to find your balance is key to maintaining a high vibe.

When your vibe is high, more pleasure is yours for the taking. Being in a state of high vibration opens you to more abundance, more opportunities, and more fun. Like attracts like, and when you’re vibing high, you’ll draw all sorts of wonderful things to you. This is beneficial for your business as well! Living a high-vibe life is part of what being a Queen is all about.

Of course, sometimes things might knock you off center. That’s just life. However, if you do find yourself off balance, there’s no need to panic. After all panic is for peasants, and you are a Queen! Find the rituals, people, and practices that bring you back to your best self, and you’ll always have a way back to your high-vibing center.

The easiest way to know what will bring your vibe back up to its natural royal level is to create a list of things, rituals, and people that bring you comfort and joy. In the instances when you feel overwhelm or need a break, that list comes in handy. Think of what lifts your spirits and makes you feel magical. Perhaps it’s a walk in nature, or curling up on the sofa with a good book. Maybe it’s calling your heart-sisters and meeting up for brunch. It could be something as simple as listening to a playlist of your favorite songs and dancing around your kitchen while you prepare dinner. Everyone’s high-vibe list will look different. Although we’re sure chocolate will be on everyone’s list, obviously.

Savannah:

For example, I keep my vision board on the desktop of my computer and post-it notes of whatever keeps me feeling fabulous and raises my vibe. I turn to this list often when I need a boost, and it has things like: gardening, baths, music, hugs, chocolate, calling my “sparkly” people, sex, and dancing. In no particular order.

Teany:

Aside from the obvious chocolate, two of my greatest high vibe things to do are karaoke to sing my heart out, and dancing in the kitchen, shower, or anywhere my body feels the call … especially with salsa or reggae. It gets my blood pumping and my energy rising!

Lady Queens, give yourself a moment today to write a list of things that bring comfort and boost your vibes when you’re feeling low. And share your top three in the comments — you might give us some new ideas! And to any Kings reading this, you can do this, too! Everyone can benefit from having a list of things that raises their vibe and make them feel royal.

Keep rocking those royal vibes!

Stay connected, juicy, and playful, and we’ll see you next time.