Lady Queens, it’s time to talk about having a glorious and healthy relationship with your body, your Pussy, and pleasure. And oh yes, you’ll be hearing more gems from our Pussipedia.
Rather than thinking about your Pussy in relation to your partner, the first and most important relationship with your Poonani should be the one you have with her.
Often you see it as your partner’s responsibility to ‘allow’ you an orgasm, limiting the association of sexual gratification to time spent intimately with others. …
…Yeah, you know me!!
(Come on, everyone loves a 90s throwback.)
Lady Queens, do you ever feel full of something inexplicable but definitely genuine? Perhaps overcome by all of the things but having a difficult time picking them apart? When this happens, it’s usually a mix of emotions, feelings, and desires. The trick lies in taking the time to figure out which one is which.
Knowing the difference between emotions, feelings, and desires as well as the relationship between all three is the first step in identifying them.
Here’s the breakdown: EFD — Emotions, Feelings, and Desires:
Emotions are felt…
Lady Queens, who is the first lady in your life?
I’ll give you a hint. Go look in the mirror. There she is! That’s right, YOU are the First Lady in your life. If you want to support other ladies, you need to start by lifting yourself up. You can only do this by being present to what’s around you, truly inhabiting your own body, and know in each moment what it is you desire. Too often, you listen to what other people desire and rate their needs higher than your own.
Savannah: I love lifting and encouraging others to…
Here’s some fancy words for you: Presence and Appreciative Focus. What do they mean? Let’s get into it…
The most powerful way of connecting — to your body and anyone else’s body too — is by being truly present. When you’re present, switched on, aware, with your eyes open and in the moment, you have a strong foundation underneath you.
You can heighten your experiences in your own body, in your orgasms, and in your everyday encounters with the people around you by finding ways to get present in your body. …
Listen up, Lady Queen: I’ve got a sentence that is going to rock your world: The most ladylike part of you is your body. Your body is your woman — and this goes for everyone, regardless of what gender you were assigned at birth. Your body is like your own Mother Earth, always honest and grounded. How fabulous a gift to have this with us at all times!
We’ve said in other posts that one of your feminine superpowers is intuition — so let’s dive a bit deeper into this superpower. …
Last post, you learned all about the Spring and Summer of your cycle.
This time, let’s go into what you can expect in the Autumn and Winter of your cycle. Much like actual Autumn and Winter, at this part of your cycle you’ll probably want to be most laid back and go within. It’s the cozy-time part of the month.
Scientific name: Luteal Phase
Season: Fall/ Autumn
Feeling: Inspiration and Self-love
The luteal phase is commonly given the name ‘pre-menstrual syndrome’.
In your body:
Your energy naturally dips during this phase, and you tend to physically withdraw, or at least…
Your cycle has seasons within it, just like a year does. Your body is a reflection of nature, and there are four main phases in each cycle of 29 and ½ days that correspond with the cycles of the moon.
Each phase brings with it a unique set of gifts — hormonal, physical, emotional and psychological.
When you have a greater understanding of these cycles, you can eat, work, love and play according to your natural flow. This understanding allows you to get better at working with your feminine power, rather than against it.
We are going to explore from…
Unfortunately, life sometimes gives us pain as well as pleasure. The important thing is the ability to return to pleasure. And so our topic today is the Art of Pleasure, which includes self-pleasuring, self-care, and, oh yes, masturbation.
Warning: We will be sharing parts of our Pussypedia. It’s going to be delicious grown-ass adult fun!
We find our gorgeous selves living in a slightly mad world today, and there are infinite reasons life could sometimes feel like too much to deal with. Returning to the Art of Pleasure is now more important than ever.
No matter your situation, the Art…
The bleeding time of your cycle is a powerful time to deeply connect to your intuition and Queenly wisdom. (If you have never bled or no longer bleed, the dark moon phase of your cycle has the same power.)
When you bleed, you get to know yourself … so, Lady Queen: Are you listening? Do you like what you hear?
In order to connect to your intuition, it’s vital to ensure your intuition has the space to express. By allowing yourself to be still during this dark part of your cycle, you can access that deep, open, quiet space within…
The Maiden, the Mother, and the Crone.
These three names have been used to describe the phases of a woman’s life, the journey from child to womanhood. However, we choose to view it differently.
Some women are unable to embody the ‘Mother’ phase, or remain child-free by choice. When you think of ‘Crone’, you most likely think of a haggard old creature, rather than a wise woman in her power. And the phase between adulthood and old age tends to be overlooked altogether.
And so, we at AllAboutTheQueendom have come up with our own way to identify the magical phases…